Closeness
| Line | Looks like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Close | Two parallel lines | A warm, supportive relationship. |
| Fused | Three parallel lines | Enmeshed: boundaries between the two are blurred. |
| Distant | Dotted line | Little emotional contact. |
Conflict
| Line | Looks like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Conflict | Zigzag | Ongoing discord or arguments. |
| Hostile | Zigzag with a straight line | Open hostility. |
| Close–hostile | Close lines with a zigzag over them | Close and conflicted at once. |
| Fused–hostile | Fused lines with a zigzag | Enmeshed and conflicted. |
| Distant–hostile | Dotted line with a zigzag | Little contact, and hostile when there is. |
| Cutoff | Line broken by two bars | No contact at all. |
Directed lines (with an arrow)
These point from the person doing it to the person it is done to.
| Line | Looks like | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Focused on | Solid arrow | One person is preoccupied with the other. |
| Neglect | Dashed arrow | One person neglects the other. |
| Abuse | Dashed zigzag with an arrow | Abuse where the type is not specified. |
| Physical abuse | Heavy zigzag with an arrow | Physical harm. |
| Emotional abuse | Light dashed zigzag with an arrow | Emotional or psychological harm. |
| Sexual abuse | Double zigzag with an arrow | Sexual harm. |
Tips
- Only draw lines your notes support. Emotional lines are interpretation; say where they come from.
- Tell lines apart by pattern, not only color, so they still read when printed in black and white.
- Put every line style you used in the key.